Random thought here:
What is beauty? Is it only skin deep or is it something else?
Is beauty what breeds attraction or is it something else?
I have been wondering this for a long while and tonight, while just glancing through my facebook, I saw many posts about plus sized women and their beauty. It annoyed me and angered me to a point.
Why? Simply put, if a man talks about being fat (and face it men don't say they are plus sized so piss off on that one) or how fat they are they are just ignored, made fun of or told to go lose some weight. However, if a woman talks about being plus sized (because let's face it women won't say they are fat), they are given pep talks and told how attractive they or or how sexy they are.
Do I disagree what plus sized women are attractive or beautiful? No. I hear you now, asking, what is with the attitude? The attitude is because I'm tired of the stereo typing. Beauty is beauty regardless of the person's looks. Beauty has many different meanings and different levels.
And let's face it, what it is really about is "Why am I still single?" or "Why can't I get a date?" or "That guy won't F*** me... " blah blah blah etc.
Something to note that I have learned about all this crap (besides the fact that this little tirade or rant won't really have an impact or make much of a difference) is that it isn't about beauty. Not what you see physically anyway. That shit is only skin deep. It's really about what's been ripped from your emotion and psychological mind. It's your self-esteem. Believe in yourself. Have confidence in what and who you are. Be happy with yourself. That's what is beautiful.
It's the mind, not the body. It's the brain, not the brawn. It's intellect, not say what they want to hear. Be that someone who stimulates another person's insight, intellect, brain, mind, ability to talk.... that breeds attraction and that is where you will find yourself in a relationship that you have hunted for all your life.